She Said Her Sister Obviously Isn’t Ready For Marriage Since She’s Immature And Doesn’t Take Responsibility For Her Mistakes
This 20-year-old woman has an older sister named Jayla, who’s 24. Jayla also recently got engaged to her boyfriend, Daniel, who’s 25.
The couple has been together for just over a year now, and her sister is thrilled about getting married. She, on the other hand, doesn’t think Jayla is ready for such a big step.
According to her, her sister has always been pretty immature and has a tendency to get quite upset over little things.
“Jayla has a habit of blaming others when things go wrong and rarely takes responsibility for her behavior,” she explained.
Apparently, she’s seen her sister’s traits come out in her relationship, too. That’s why she’s concerned that Jayla and Daniel might just be a toxic couple.
So, when her sister brought up the engagement just the other day and asked for her thoughts on whether she believed they were ready for marriage, she didn’t hold back her opinion.
First, she admitted to believing that Jayla simply wasn’t ready for that type of commitment. She pointed out how her sister is immature, often gets angry easily, and never takes responsibility for any of her mistakes.
“I thought it was important for her to reflect on these issues before making a lifelong commitment,” she reasoned.
Well, even though she honestly answered her sister’s question, Jayla was furious. She got accused of being unsupportive and attempting to sabotage Jayla’s relationship.
isabel – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
“And my sister felt that my feedback was hurtful and unnecessary, especially since she JUST got engaged,” she added.
Her parents have since heard about what happened as well, and they’ve taken her sister’s side. They think it was wrong of her to say such harsh things right to Jayla’s face.
Now, with everyone in her life treating her like the “bad guy,” she can’t help but wonder if saying that her sister obviously wasn’t ready for marriage was really a jerky thing to do.
Should she have lied to Jayla, or does it sound like she wanted to help her sister understand the gravity of getting married? How would you have responded in this situation?
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