She Caught Her Sister In Bed With Her Husband Over The Summer, And Her Mom’s Pushing Her To Forgive And Forget
Over the summer, this 28-year-old woman sadly caught her 30-year-old sister in bed with her 30-year-old husband.
On the evening she found out about their affair, she arrived at her house on the late side, and there they were: her husband and her sister in bed without any clothes on.
They were actually sleeping when she walked in on them, and she promptly freaked out. They both apologized profusely while admitting it was one enormous mistake.
She kicked them both out and informed her husband that she was going to divorce him. The following morning, she actually did just that.
“They both begged me to change my mind. I ignored them and continued on. My ex eventually realized I was truly done when I wouldn’t even consider marriage therapy with him and when I gave him back both rings, which were rings from his family,” she explained.
“I wanted to have him gone after finding him with my sister and had no interest in selling them or anything for money. I just wanted him gone and to send the message that I was not going to work on our marriage.”
But let’s rewind real quick to that fateful night: right after her sister left her home, her sister went to their mom and dad’s house.
Her mom remained there along with her sister, but her dad came over to check on her. Having her dad there for such a crushing time in her life meant the world to her.
Even months later, her dad has been her biggest support system, and while her mom has tried to be helpful, she is pushing her to issue forgiveness to her sister.
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She keeps saying that her sister has said sorry many, many times. Making it all worse, her sister and her almost now ex-husband then got pregnant.
“My sister’s marriage ended last year because she had many fertility problems (PCOS, endometriosis, and her eggs weren’t healthy enough to try IVF), and her ex-husband wanted biological kids,” she added.
“It was a big blow to learn her chance for bio kids was so low, and then her marriage is over. I was there for her throughout and said I would help her however I could.
“I even said I would be open to carrying a baby for her in the future. I loved my sister. We were so close. So her actions hurt more than even my ex’s. And then she was pregnant.”
Her sister ultimately terminated the pregnancy, knowing that she would never accept her child, and her sister did this to prove she was the most important person in her life.
Meanwhile, her mom pleaded with her to convince her sister to keep the baby and pressed her to forgive her since this was such a big thing.
Her mom was so furious with her for allowing her sister to follow through with her decision not to be a mom, and her dad had to step in. She didn’t have it in her heart to forgive her sister, so she didn’t.
She still is not interested in forgiving her sister, and she has not spoken to her lately. She will never be able to fix things after finding out about the affair, and though her sister and ex promise it was a one-time thing, she’s not convinced.
“I helped her through the worst time in her life, offered to help her have kids one day in the future, and she does that to me,” she continued.
“I want her to suffer for what she did. I don’t want to let her off easy. I don’t want to act like things are okay or give her another chance. I don’t want to be stabbed in the back again.”
For Thanksgiving and Christmas, her dad spent the holidays with her, as her mom and sister were together, and she didn’t want to be around her sister.
Her mom is still hounding her to move on and even accused her of acting more deplorably than her sister did being caught in bed with her ex.
Her mom says she’s ruining their family and hurting her sister in the process.
“She told me we were always so close, and I confirmed we had been, and I told her she shattered all that,” she added.
“I told her I regretted being a good sister to her because it got me [a] betrayal from the two people I loved most in the world, and I’ll never be able to stop associating her with doing that to me.”
She’s left wondering if she’s wrong for refusing to forgive her sister for what she did.
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