Bre Avery Zacharski
“My wife claimed that she found blonde hair in our bed (my wife is brunette). She claimed that the babysitter dresses inappropriately when I’m at the house. [My] wife also claims she found the babysitter in my closet when she came home.”
He told his wife she was making everything up and needs to seek out some “serious help” for thinking he was having an affair.
Since last weekend, his wife has been pleading with him to allow their lives to go back to the way they were.
He can’t even so much as look at his wife; he’s that disgusted. The sole reason he’s remained in their home is that his daughter’s birthday is happening this week, and he doesn’t want her day to be destroyed because of his wife.
“I basically need to decide if I stay or divorce her,” he said. “If I stay, what rules do I ask her to follow?”
“The reason I’m leaning towards staying is because I want my daughters to have both parents all the time. Also, the house is in my wife’s name, along with the cars. My wife is a stay-at-home mom without an income. I talked to my friend who’s an attorney, and he said I would almost definitely lose the house.”
“My wife would end up with custody of my daughters. My child support payments would be north of $2,000 a month, along with spousal support. My friend also told me the jurisdiction we live in doesn’t favor the father much.”
He’s left wondering what he should do and how he can prevent his wife from cheating on him in the future.
What advice do you have for him?
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