Katharina Buczek
Her wedding is also just one month away, and she started all of the planning one whole year ago. So, giving her brother a plus one and adding an extra person to the event would be a major hassle.
“Plus, our family gatherings are usually small and intimate,” she added.
That’s why she wound up telling her sister that her boyfriend simply was not invited since, at the end of the day, she just didn’t want a “stranger” attending her big day.
Well, unfortunately, her sister just became really upset, accused her of being selfish, and claimed that she should be supportive of their new relationship.
“But I think it’s fair to keep my guest list as planned, especially since we aren’t even close to capacity limits,” she reasoned.
Nonetheless, her parents have since gotten involved and keep telling her that she should just let her sister’s boyfriend go to the wedding to “keep the peace.”
So now, she’s not sure if refusing to invite her sister’s new boyfriend is reasonable or actually makes her a jerk.
Shouldn’t she get to decide who’s invited to her own wedding? Is it her job to “keep the peace” or not? What would you do in her shoes?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
