Bre Avery Zacharski
He also has quipped that the best things you can have in life are things you cannot buy. While these comments on their own wouldn’t be alarming to her, it’s the tone this guy uses and the frequency in which he brings this up that has her believing he would judge her if he had any idea how much money she spends on the regular.
Since he talks in a negative way about rich people and money, she’s not convinced he’s going to take it the right way when he eventually finds out about her wealth.
“For example, the boots I wore on our second date cost as much as his share of his rent,” she said.
“The comparison feels distasteful, but that’s the sort of way he frames things sometimes when talking more abstractly.”
“It makes me feel embarrassed and also like I’m maybe lying to him, and he wouldn’t actually like me if he knew that I spend money in ways he might consider frivolous.”
She would hate to stop dating him, but she’s failing to see how they will be compatible due to their views on money.
“I don’t want to overthink this because it’s so early, but the only reason I’m thinking about it is because of the frequency of his little comments, even if they’re innocuous on their face,” she concluded.
What advice do you have for her?
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