She Dumped Her Boyfriend Due To His Creepy Obsession With Her Mom
This 30-year-old woman and her 34-year-old boyfriend have been dating for close to nine years, and they have a daughter who’s one and a half.
For the last several years, her sister and her mom have been convinced that her boyfriend’s been recording her mom in secret.
Although they kept on bringing this to her attention, she had no evidence, and she never saw her boyfriend record her mom.
A little over a month ago, she and her boyfriend were at her grandma’s house for her birthday celebration.
Her mom was bending over, doing something, and at that moment, she saw her boyfriend recording her mom while thinking nobody was looking.
“My stomach dropped because I knew I finally caught him, and I couldn’t defend him any longer,” she explained.
“Important to note, every time we leave a family function of mine, he always runs to the bathroom. I didn’t think anything of it, but my family admits they think he’s hiding the videos somewhere on his phone during this time.”
“I didn’t say anything but we quickly left, where I confronted him on the ride home. He went pale and started shaking like a leaf. I asked to see his phone- videos and photos. Nothing. I asked to see his hidden and recently deleted; he freaked out and said he couldn’t open it. The face recognition wasn’t working or something.”
Not wanting to cause a scene with their little girl sitting in the back of the car, she let it go and made herself busy with tucking their daughter into bed for the night.
leszekglasner – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
When she was done with their daughter, she demanded that her boyfriend fork over his phone again, and he went running downstairs with it in his hand.
He actually locked a door behind him and said he was busy doing laundry. The problem is that her boyfriend has never shown so much passion regarding laundry, so she knew he was lying.
She finally got the locked door open, and her boyfriend’s phone was magically cleared when she gained access to it. Whatever he had on there was deleted, but she knows that means he had things worth hiding.
She feels violated and like she can no longer trust her boyfriend. They agreed to attend counseling together, but nothing came of their sessions, as her boyfriend failed to tell her the truth about what was on his phone.
“My issue is I have no physical proof now. I contacted private investigators and data forensic teams, but I can’t do anything without his consent, and he won’t give me access to his phone,” she added.
She has since dumped her boyfriend over his creepy obsession with her mom, but she’s doubting she made the right choice.
She’s so sad that she refused to celebrate her own birthday recently because it makes her depressed to think of herself as a single mom.
“I never wanted this,” she continued. ‘I’m so angry and hurt, it’s like I instantly fell out of love. Instantly, just the ick. He violated my trust and love, but also my family.”
There’s a glimmer of hope in her that she’s wrong and that her boyfriend wasn’t recording her mom, but she will never find out.
She’s been sleeping on their couch since breaking up with her boyfriend, and she’s wondering what else he might be hiding from her.
She’s left wondering if she’s mean for dumping her boyfriend without any proof of what he really did.
“I know not every relationship is perfect; we’ve had our issues,” she continued. “Ups and downs, breaks.”
“This just doesn’t seem fixable, but I’m worried I’m throwing it away and going to ruin my daughter’s life over something I can’t prove.”
What advice do you have for her?
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