His Wife Wrote Vile Things About Him In Her Diary, So He’s Worried She’s Only With Him Because He’s A Great Provider
This 39-year-old man and his 39-year-old wife have been married for a decade, but for the last six years, their relationship has been on the decline.
They have three children, and they basically are just roommates at this rate since they are so miserable together. They have separate bedrooms, barely communicate, and hardly spend time around one another.
“Part of the reason is her eating disorder, which takes priority over me and the kids,” he explained.
His wife spent two months doing inpatient treatment for that, was doing a partial hospitalization program for another two months, and is currently participating in a day treatment program.
While his wife was in the hospital, he found her diary, and he can’t say he views her as the woman he always thought he knew.
Honestly, he knows she’s a liar after he read all the vile things she wrote about him because she confessed to lying to his face.
“Currently, we are just about to start our third (and for me…a final attempt at marriage therapy),” he said.
“I feel completely deflated since reading her thoughts. They include horrible things about me, my mother, who I watched die from cancer, my family, etc.”
What his wife wrote is so cruel I’m not going to repeat the worst things, but she said that she no longer loves him and relied on her eating disorder to make her feel something in her life again.
khmelev – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
She went on to admit she feels disgusted to call him her husband, and she acknowledged that she feels like he’s less than a roommate to her.
She added that she doesn’t want to remain married to him, so it’s curious they’re about to start a third attempt at counseling.
“She made a list of 32 reasons why she wants a divorce,” he continued. “Kept repeating how she “hates me so much.” Hates my mother and my family, calls them all evil…”not a good person amongst them.”
As he kept reading, he learned his wife pretty much baby-trapped him with two of their three kids, has a secret male friend whom she fantasizes about, and lies to him nonstop.
Additionally, she has reckless spending habits, even though she’s a stay-at-home mom.
“Being married for 10 years has been challenging, but after reading everything she wrote. I’m wondering if she is really the woman I thought I married,” he concluded.
“In closing, she says she loves me and wants to make things work, but all I see are the thoughts she put down in her journal. Is this actually what she thinks? Does she want to stay together just because I am a good provider?”
What advice do you have for him?
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