Bre Avery Zacharski
“I don’t know what to do or think. I don’t really understand her perspective since she’s the one pushing for us moving together to a bigger place, getting kids eventually and so. She says she missed me and wants to get old with me, but she needs the total freedom just once. She’s ready to put the relationship on the line if I don’t accept it or grant it.”
His girlfriend even admitted to him it’s a “crazy” way for her to be, but these are her feelings. She agreed to let him have one free hall pass, too, but she asked that he not inform her if he hooks up with another girl.
Adding to the weirdness, his girlfriend stated that she would be heartbroken if he hooked up with someone other than her, but that’s a consequence she has to live with, considering she wants a hall pass.
He thinks that the guy she was into on the three-week trip is probably going on the next trip his girlfriend signed up for, which sparked her interest in temporarily opening up their relationship.
He’s so puzzled by his girlfriend’s request, and he’s feeling entirely overwhelmed by it. He’s left wondering if any girls can understand where his girlfriend is coming from.
Do you sympathize with her and do you have any advice for him?
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