Bre Avery Zacharski
He waited for his wife to come home that night, and when she walked through the door, he asked her if she wanted to tell him anything.
His wife confessed that she’s been miserable for the last three years, and she wants to move ahead with separating.
He was crushed and quickly set to work untangling his own personal problems in therapy. He feels his anxiety around being a dad has caused him to destroy his relationship with his wife (they’ve been together for 15 years).
When he tried to talk to his wife about all of this, she simply said she has developed feelings for one of her coworkers. This person is apparently the coworker with whom she stayed out super late that night.
“Now I feel like my trust was shattered, and the worst part now is that she’s sad because this person wants to back off a bit because they don’t want to be the reason a marriage is destroyed, even [though] my wife is actively seeking her out,” he said.
“My question is, is it survivable? She has stated she is not interested in trying to go back to couple’s therapy and work things out because she’s been emotionally done for so long.”
“As hurt and embarrassed [as] I am, I still want to fight for the relationship even though she says she doesn’t.”
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
