Bre Avery Zacharski
He’s the only person who says sorry; his wife never expresses remorse for hurting his feelings. Every single time he fights with his wife, which is on a daily basis, he ends up crying when they’re done.
While he loves his wife and desperately wants their marriage to succeed, he’s tired of the daily arguments.
The stress of his marriage is weighing heavily on him, in addition to his school work. He’s tried to discuss his feelings with his wife, but she doesn’t really hear him.
They don’t have the money to go to therapy, and they have bought self-help books, but they don’t read them all the way through.
“It feels like we both are so unhappy with each other,” he added. “I should add- she wants me to try harder to do things for her every day to make her feel special, whether big or small.”
“I understand this and have been indisputably better about it, but it hasn’t been enough. I’m reaching a point where I don’t want to do this stuff because I feel like it’s not helping, and I’m just resenting her.”
“How can I get past my negative views of her?”
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