Bre Avery Zacharski
“I’ve told all my friends and family and the excitement of getting to have our special day has been building,” she said.
“The wedding is booked on our five-year elopement anniversary in November 2025, which I think 5 years is well and truly long enough.”
Unfortunately, yesterday evening her husband said he feels the need to postpone their wedding for a third time.
He’s looking to push it back for an additional five years, so he wants to rebook for 2030. She’s crushed that her husband wants to do this to her since they agreed to elope and then have a big day later on.
Evidently, her husband thinks a wedding is a waste of their money and a silly idea, considering they are already married.
“I never would have agreed to the elopement if I knew that’s how he felt,” she said. “I’ve given him every opportunity to speak up about what he wants in the wedding and he’s always seemed indifferent and hasn’t had any objections.”
“So this has completely blindsided me. I don’t know where to go from here; marriage and [a] wedding were non-negotiable for me. If I agree to postpone to the year 2030, then what’s to stop him from saying, “Well, it’s been 10 years; what’s the point now?”
“We’ve barely spoken today. My eldest child has some intuition despite the entire conversation taking place while she slept last night. She asked to see my wedding shoes, and I burst into tears. I birthed three of his children. I should get to be a bride and have our special wedding that we’ve been planning for 5 years.”
What advice do you have for her?
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