Instead, he just became enraged and claimed she had no “right” to be upset when she was the reason they lost their son in the first place.
“He even told the woman I was ‘unstable,’ and she looked at me with pity, like I was some kind of deranged ex. That moment felt like rock bottom,” she detailed.
That’s why she’s at her breaking point and cannot endure her husband’s abuse, accusations, or infidelity any longer. However, she can’t bring herself to divorce him.
Anytime she even considers leaving, she thinks about how her husband will probably just tell everyone that she abandoned him because she wasn’t able to “handle” her guilt.
“Some people in his family already think I’m the reason our son died, thanks to what he’s been saying behind my back. It’s like he’s set me up to look like a monster no matter what I do,” she vented.
Now, she’s just not sure if walking away from her marriage would be justified or if she’d be selfish to leave while her husband was still grieving.
Is it fair for her husband to take his grief out on her like that while she’s also trying to cope with the loss? Does it sound like there’s any way to salvage their marriage, or should they split up?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
