“I don’t understand what he thought happened to me at the spa. I don’t understand why he didn’t call the spa before he drove 40 minutes. I don’t understand why he didn’t regulate his feelings after the front desk told him I was alive.”
“I felt confused, and a little scared, and mad to find him in the parking lot, all upset. We both had a tough week and were in desperate need of relaxation.”
After they got back home, they spent the entire evening arguing, and she still feels angry and puzzled.
Often, she feels like her boyfriend’s anxiety suffocates her, and she finds his intense emotions triggering.
What advice do you have for her?
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