Katharina Buczek
This sparked an argument between them, and he emphasized how important remaining child-free was to him. His fiancée, on the other hand, still didn’t think it was a big deal.
“I told her that I do not want to marry someone who does not respect my wishes about not having kids,” he explained.
“And we live together, so after this fight, I have been staying with a friend out of state to just allow some space.”
In the wake of all this tension, he’s been made out to be the bad guy, too. Apparently, his fiancée, her family, and her friends have all begun berating him, claiming that having a child is really important to her.
They even urged him to just reconsider, stating that everything could turn out to be fine.
“But I do not ever want to put a child through what I watched my brother go through and what my parents had to experience,” he vented.
It’s clear to him that he and his fiancée aren’t on the same page, and while he loves her, the fact that she thought she could somehow change his mind doesn’t sit well with him.
“If she wants kids, I can understand that, but it will not be with me,” he said.
Now, he is also considering ending their engagement over this, but he’s not sure if that would be the right thing to do.
How would you feel in his shoes? Do you think they’re a suitable match anymore, or is it best to part ways?
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