“When he was telling me this story, he was very proud of himself for stopping himself before sleeping with her. I was so aghast by this. I told him we’ll talk later because the stress was making my surgery site flare up with pain.”
“When we did talk, he said that he has to understand why this was hurtful before he can apologize. Again, aghast…I told him I felt betrayed, I felt dishonored, and I felt so sad that he would do this while I’m recovering from surgery that I had to increase my fertility chances so we can have a family.”
Her husband just wasn’t willing to hear her out and couldn’t grasp why she was so upset. They have since started therapy together and only have a couple of sessions under their belts.
She’s been worried for a long time that she and her husband are not exactly a great fit, and then he went out and did this.
What advice do you have for her?
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