She’s Furious That Her Boyfriend Invited His Sister On Their 10-Day Vacation Because They Both Changed All Of Her Plans And Ganged Up On Her The Entire Time
This 34-year-old woman and her boyfriend, who’s 35, have been together for over a year now.
Recently, they decided to plan their first trip as a couple – which centered around seeing a concert in an area where they wanted to go hiking and camping. They would be away for a total of 10 days.
It also just so happened that the concert was only a few hours away from her boyfriend’s 23-year-old sister, whom she hadn’t met yet. So, his sister was worked into their getaway.
“The plan was that we would fly into where his sister lives, spend a day or two with her, then go towards our final destination (about three hours from where she lived), spending some time backpacking and hiking along the way,” she recalled.
But, before they actually left for their trip, her boyfriend asked if his sister could also attend the concert. At the time, she was fine with that and simply thought, “The more, the merrier.”
She also talked to her boyfriend about the logistics of his sister traveling to the concert, and he claimed that she could drive herself there.
Yet, only one week before their vacation was set to start, her boyfriend changed the plan again – this time, in a major way.
“He said it would make more sense if his sister just came along for the whole trip because he didn’t think it would make sense for her to drive herself out to meet us later,” she revealed.
That’s why her boyfriend’s sister tagged along for the entire 10 days, and her travel experience was a total nightmare.
ASDF – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
All of a sudden, the hikes and stops they’d both agreed upon beforehand were deemed “boring” once her boyfriend’s sister was in the car with them. He and his sister wound up picking out other places to go instead, and they kept insisting that she “wasn’t being fun.”
“And I mentioned several times that I felt taken aback and ganged up on, which they seemed to take pleasure in?” she explained.
“I don’t know, it felt like middle school.”
Still, she was utterly shocked when they finally arrived home, and her boyfriend had the nerve to say that he didn’t want to travel with her anymore!
At that point, she finally snapped. She told her boyfriend that the getaway was supposed to help them spend quality time together, and they had only intended to visit family for a couple of days.
Instead, she accused him of ruining their trip by bringing his sister along for the whole thing.
“I apologized for my attitude, but again, when two people are giggling about getting you worked up, it’s hard to keep cool,” she vented.
Even so, her boyfriend has not apologized at all and firmly believes he didn’t do anything wrong.
Now, this has left her wondering whether being furious at him for inviting his sister is really so unreasonable or not.
How would you feel if your partner’s sibling came along on what was supposed to be a special first vacation and made you feel like an outsider?
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