She Went On A Date With A Guy Who Enjoyed Arguing With Her And Said He Didn’t Believe In Love
If every date went perfectly, that would make the world a much more boring place. Sometimes, bad dates are needed to spice up our lives.
TikToker Molly Rutter (@mollyerutter) is from Buffalo, New York, and she’s diving into detail about a terrible date she had with a guy who constantly got into debates with her and exuded toxic energy.
So, she matched with a guy on a dating app, and they only chatted for a brief time before meeting in person.
They agreed to meet up in a pub at 10 o’clock at night. She knew a lot of people who frequented the pub, so there would always be someone there to look out for her. She reached the pub first since he was running 20 minutes late.
Their date started out pretty strong. The moment he walked in, she thought he was extremely handsome.
He had kind eyes and a nice smile. She learned that he traveled a lot and ran a successful business on his own. It started to go downhill when he mentioned that he hated kids, which was a huge dealbreaker for Molly.
She was a primary school teacher and nearly ended the date right then and there. But she didn’t really have anything to do the next day, so she decided to stick around and see where the night would take her.
She found out what some of his worst characteristics were and remained thoroughly entertained the whole time.
The most unsettling thing about him was that he would consistently disagree with her on many topics, launch into friendly little arguments, and then say he agreed with her all along.
Viacheslav Yakobchuk – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual people
Usually, disagreements didn’t really bother her as long as the conversation remained respectful. But what this guy was doing was blatant gaslighting.
For example, he told Molly that he didn’t believe in love. When he asked her to share what her definition of love was, she said that love meant providing unconditional support and care for someone while also having a deep understanding of them.
When asked what love meant to him, he gave a very similar answer to hers. Then, he declared that they agreed on what love meant. She accused him of changing his opinion at random.
They also got into another heated discussion about who should be the leader in a relationship. He argued that a man always needs to be the leader, while she believed that both partners should be equal.
She ended up inviting him back to her apartment, where he met her dog, Bo. Bo tended to become aggressive whenever someone made him uncomfortable. At her place, the guy started petting Bo roughly. Molly told him that he needed to be more gentle, but he wouldn’t listen.
At one point, he even picked up her hand and moved it without consent, which made her upset. In her opinion, it was a sign of disrespect.
She went into another room to take a second to calm down. Once she reemerged, he tried to make light of the situation by cracking jokes and asking random questions about her apartment. When she didn’t react, he asked her if she wanted him to leave.
She suggested that they talk about how he had made her feel. His response was that he was just feeling good at the moment and apologized for touching her. Afterward, he left abruptly, saving her the trouble of kicking him out.
@molly.rutter Also he was one of those guys who doesnt want kids but if he ever does he insists on only having a boy so he can “continue his blood line” ? #baddatestory #terribledatestories #datinginyour30s #turkishmen #datestorytime #lifeinistanbul
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