She Left A Horrible Blind Date With A Guy Early Since He Wouldn’t Stop Commenting On Everything From Her Makeup And Hair To Her Outfit
This 27-year-old woman is currently single, and her relationship status apparently really bothers her aunt for some reason. That’s why she was recently set up on a blind date with the son of one of her aunt’s friends.
“I myself don’t really care about starting a relationship anytime soon – I’m not opposed to it, I just don’t think it’s really that big of a deal – but my aunt kept insisting I gave this guy a chance,” she recalled.
So, to appease her aunt, she eventually agreed to meet up with the guy for coffee this past Sunday. But from the moment she sat down, it was a nightmare because he wouldn’t stop commenting on every single little aspect of her appearance.
For starters, the guy literally greeted her by saying, “I don’t like women who wear red lipstick. It makes you look shrewish.” She tried to move past that and jokingly asked whether her red lipstick looked bad on her. Yet, the guy just kept digging himself a deeper hole.
He went on to talk about how he didn’t want “his girl” to rely on any cosmetics to improve her looks. He also began making comments about her eyeliner, which he thought made her eyes appear “too sharp,” and asked whether she wore fake eyelashes.
She clarified that she didn’t and only ever put on a bit of mascara. Well, the guy had an opinion on that, too, and “advised” her not to use it anymore.
Next, he moved onto her hair – which was curled.
“Telling me I should have kept my hair straight instead of curling it (I’m Asian, and we Asian women tend to have straight hair) and that he was glad I didn’t dye my hair, but I should have honored my ‘natural beauty’ more by leaving my hair alone,” she revealed.
Once he was finished over-analyzing her features, he started discussing her perfume, which, according to him, smelled “too women for his taste.” He proceeded to say that she shouldn’t wear any fragrances at all or opt for something milder since he wanted “his girl” to have a “sweet, innocent scent.”
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As if all of this wasn’t enough, the guy ended by bringing up the red dress she was wearing – claiming that she shouldn’t have worn it. She asked whether there was some dress code she didn’t know about at the cafe, but it became clear it was just another one of the guy’s crazy opinions.
“I don’t like my girl wearing that color in public. You look too headstrong in that color. Oh, the dress is too short, by the way,” he replied.
She clarified how her dress, which was knee-length, was definitely not too short. And by that point, she couldn’t get over how rude and annoying the guy had been acting.
That’s why she actually took some money out of her purse and gave it to the guy for her share of the bill. She also told him that they weren’t a suitable match, so their date would be ending.
“And I wished him good luck in his quest of finding his girl,” she added.
For some reason, the guy was surprised by her leaving the date early and asked how she could possibly know that they weren’t a good match when they hadn’t gotten to know each other year.
“Then he asked if I was bothered by his words, calling me sensitive for being offended by his suggestion. He said I needed to learn to take criticism and that if I couldn’t handle suggestions from other people who only wanted what was best for me, I wouldn’t be able to go far in life,” she explained.
She was done dealing with the guy, though, and told him to shove his “helpful” suggestions where the sun doesn’t shine. Afterward, she left the cafe.
Now, in the wake of this horrible date, she’s been wondering if telling him off and leaving like that was the best way to handle the situation.
Does it make sense why a guy like this needs his mom to set up blind dates for him? How would you have reacted in her shoes?
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