Yesterday, her boyfriend said his ex is coming next week to visit, grab the rest of her personal items, and see their dogs. Oh, and she’s also going to be sleeping over at his house while she’s in town.
“I blew up,” she explained. “I asked if she knew of me. He said yes, but when I said, “No, does she know of me, as in you told her that you are exclusively talking to me?” he said no. He tried reassuring me that nothing was to transpire and [that] she will be sleeping in the back room.”
She let her boyfriend know how uneasy this makes her, and she added that she finds it extremely disrespectful to her.
She then said she’s upset that her boyfriend’s past is magically part of their current life once more and that she wants his ex to stay in his past where she belongs.
Trying to make her feel better, her boyfriend promised to sleep at her home while his ex is around, but that doesn’t help. She just doesn’t want her boyfriend’s ex staying in his home. Period, the end.
She snapped at her boyfriend, saying that perhaps she should be the one sleeping over while his ex is in his home, before asking him how he would feel if he was in her situation.
“All he said was he understood, he apologized, and it won’t happen again. That I have every right to be angry,” she continued.
“As of now, I’m just angry that this is even a situation! Or [a] topic of conversation.”
What advice do you have for her?
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