This 28-year-old woman and her fiancé, who’s 30, have been together for three years, and next month, they are finally tying the knot.
But, while she’s been super excited for her big day, her little sister has begun causing some drama.
According to her, her 26-year-old sister has always been sort of a “drama queen” and is currently single following a string of failed relationships.
“Which my sister never fails to remind everyone about,” she noted.
And around six months ago, she noticed that her sister began acting weird toward her fiancé in the wake of her single status.
She brushed off the strange behavior at first and figured her sister was just acting like her “usual self.” Then, one evening, things escalated when her sister actually texted her fiancé – talking about how “great” he looked and claiming to miss hanging out with him.
“I was uncomfortable, but I decided to let it slide,” she recalled.
Well, that was until a few weeks later when she heard some shocking news from a mutual friend. Apparently, her friend exposed her sister for trying to flirt with her fiancé behind her back.
She took that accusation very seriously and immediately confronted her sister. However, her sister simply laughed the whole situation off and said she was only joking around.
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“It felt like a huge betrayal, and I told my sister that I couldn’t trust her anymore,” she explained.
She didn’t want to create any more drama, though, which is why she attempted to keep things civil between her and her sister – and she still planned to invite her sister to her nuptials.
“But my sister continued to make snide comments about how she could ‘make him happier’ than I could,'” she revealed.
At that point, she was done being the bigger person and ultimately decided that her sister wasn’t welcome at her wedding anymore.
Yet, for some reason, the rest of her family has had mixed reactions to this. Sure, some people agree that her sister crossed a line, but others actually think she’s overreacting about the entire thing.
Her mom has even taken her sister’s side and urged her to forgive her sister for “the sake of family.”
“I’m feeling guilty but also angry that my sister would act that way toward me,” she vented.
That’s why she’s now torn and wondering whether uninviting her sister from her big day was really so unreasonable or not.
Can you believe anyone sided with her sister in this scenario? Did she have a right to uninvite her? What would you have done?
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