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She Can’t Get Behind Her Sister’s Marriage, So She Said No To Being Her Maid Of Honor

“She was furious. She told me I was being overdramatic, that I “just don’t like John,” and that I was letting my personal feelings ruin her special day.”

“Our parents are upset with me too and think I’m “ruining the family” by not supporting her wedding. They say I should put my feelings aside because “Emily is happy.” But is she really happy if she’s constantly making excuses for his behavior? I just don’t want to see her trapped in a toxic marriage.”

Emily is currently no longer speaking with her, and she has asked one of their mutual friends to be her Maid of Honor instead.

She’s left feeling shattered and as if she’s losing Emily. A piece of her believes she perhaps should have just said yes to Emily in order to maintain their relationship.

However, another piece of her thinks it was right of her to stand up for her belief that John isn’t the right pick for Emily.

Do you think it was wrong of her to speak her mind to Emily and decline such a special role in her wedding?

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