He reminded his wife that he could talk to whoever he pleased, since they were in the middle of a divorce.
For the next few days, his wife kept nagging him about this other woman, and he eventually said he was in contact with her.
The day after his admission, his wife called him, insisting she missed him and no longer wanted the divorce.
He had already resolved to move on with his life, and given the insane plot twist with the cousin, it wasn’t practical for him to try to reconcile with his wife.
However, his wife will not leave him alone and is currently still pleading with him not to let the divorce move ahead, even though she’s the one who wanted that six weeks ago.
“I truly feel I cannot go back to that; she betrayed me with her COUSIN and abandoned me during the darkest time of my life,” he continued.
“But I still do love her and care for her, obviously, even though she destroyed everything we had built. My thing is, I’m struggling with guilt. I know I shouldn’t feel guilt, as I did nothing wrong in this scenario, but I feel guilty.”
He feels awful that his wife will suffer financially since she became a stay-at-home mom after they welcomed their first child. She has no ability to make money and no job to rely on.
He also feels bad for his children and like he gave up on them. While he can sit here and make a list of reasons why he should stay far away from his wife, his head is fighting with his heart.
“She wants me back, but it seems like it is not for the right reasons,” he explained. “Seems more of jealousy, knowing she’s going to struggle financially, and because I know she doesn’t want to live in our small hometown we grew up in, and she’s feeling upset we aren’t in Florida like we had planned originally.”
“Not because she loves me and wants to fix this.”
