“This has caused issues between us; she feels like I don’t consider her a priority anymore; I feel completely burnt out,” he added.
“This morning, she told me [she] and her therapist have made a plan that will help her be more independent; I was happy to hear this until she explained it involves me getting in her car every day while she drives around to build confidence, I told her I wasn’t doing that.”
“I explained I didn’t want to be dragged around in the car [for] a few hours every day. She kept nagging me about how she needed this, and I was holding her back by not helping her.”
“Eventually, I lost my temper and yelled at her that I am a person, not a comfort blanket; I have my own [stuff] I need to deal with, and am not just available to her whenever she needs it.”
His girlfriend began crying after he said that to her, and she hasn’t said a word to him since he lost his cool.
He’s left wondering if he took it all to the point of no return.
What do you think?
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