Katharina Buczek
His fiancée wasn’t able to explain exactly why she didn’t find him exhilarating. Soon, she also realized that her words had upset him, and all he could do was make an excuse to leave – as he couldn’t talk to her anymore.
In the wake of what happened, his head hasn’t stopped spinning, either. He genuinely thought that he was an “exciting guy.” After all, he has tattoos, rides motorcycles, practices MMA as a hobby, and goes to the gym.
“I’ve always seen myself as being that exciting guy. My ex was basically obsessed with me and constantly made it clear she found me exciting,” he detailed.
Yet, his current fiancée simply doesn’t view him the same way, and it has caused his whole sense of self to crumble.
“And what made it worse is I am excited by her,” he vented.
Whenever he sees her, he can’t stop thinking about her and fantasizing about being with her. Obviously, though, those feelings are not reciprocated.
While he knows it might sound crazy, this realization has even pushed him to consider calling off their engagement altogether. He’s just not sure if that would be a total overreaction or not.
How would you feel if you found out your partner didn’t see you as an exciting person? Is it okay to be viewed as “safe,” or does it suggest his fiancée is “settling?”
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
