Bre Avery Zacharski
Since his wife has been nothing but adamant about their separation for an entire year, he just rented an apartment close to their home so he can spend as much time with his children as possible.
Tomorrow, he’s supposed to be moving out, and he has a new woman in his life whom he is currently dating.
“The thing is, I met someone about 2 months ago who I have formed a really strong relationship with; we get along really well, have fun together, understand each other’s issues, and both want to explore further and see where this goes,” he said.
His wife was unaware of his relationship, but two weeks ago, when he brought up moving out of their house, he addressed his new girlfriend.
Last night, he and his wife were discussing his move-out date along with their upcoming schedule for their children, including when he would be spending time with them at the house.
Unexpectedly, his wife admitted to him that she no longer wants him to move out and get his own place, and she wants to be done with their separation, too.
“She breaks down and tells me that she doesn’t want me to leave and wants to work on us getting back together,” he added.
“She doesn’t care that I have been intimate with someone else and says she will get over it and that we need to stay together as a family.”
“I honestly did not see this coming at all and was really surprised by this as I fully believed we were over and there was no going back, especially with all of the fighting and nasty things that have been said. I had made peace with this and was fully prepared to move on with my life.”
He just feels super blindsided, as his wife has spent a literal year arguing with him and saying she wants nothing more than to be done with him.
He’s left wondering what on earth he should do: move out and start his new life with his girlfriend, or stay in his home and fix his marriage like his wife wants.
