Katharina Buczek
Nonetheless, about two weeks after they met up, the bride proceeded to text her and her boyfriend separately – describing the “numerical meaning” behind her chosen wedding date, claiming it was about “family gathering together.”
Then, the bride asked if she and her boyfriend would like to tie the knot at their wedding, just like her friend did.
“My boyfriend ignored her, and I responded, ‘Not going to happen. My boyfriend and I are happy as life partners,'” she recalled. “I thought the conversation was over.”
Well, it wasn’t, since just last night, her boyfriend’s younger brother, the groom, texted her asking if she was “sure” that she wasn’t interested in having a double wedding this weekend.
She just rolled her eyes and “disliked” his text message. In response, the groom replied, “BOOOO,” and when she tried to reiterate that they were glad to remain life partners, he just wrote back, “Adorable.”
“I can’t help but be offended by not only this pressure to do something that I don’t want but also by the response of his brother,” she admitted.
Not to mention, she knows that the bride and groom had been having a ton of fights throughout their nine-month wedding planning process. At one point, the couple even briefly called off their nuptials.
“Why would you want someone to share a wedding date when you’re barely making it to the altar?” she asked.
Regardless, she’s been left feeling pretty frustrated by the bride and groom’s behavior and isn’t sure if not wanting to have a double wedding is so crazy.
Is it okay if couples don’t want to get married? How should she handle this situation?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
