Her Psycho Ex Is Officiating Her Best Friend’s Wedding, So She’s Staying Home
In 2022, this woman dated a guy who was pretty psycho, but she only figured it out well into their relationship.
He was psychologically and mentally abusive to her and dreamed of having her be the perfect little housewife.
He wanted her to be quiet, perfect, and pretty at every moment. If she didn’t feel like being physically close to him, he would say he did not love her, and that’s not even the worst of it.
She finally developed the courage to dump him, and even though she blocked him through email, phone, and social media, he still created fake profiles to harass her and her friends.
This continued for six long months before he quit doing this, and when he did, she figured she could finally put him in the past where he belonged.
But back when she still was with her toxic ex, she introduced her best friend and her best friend’s fiancé to him, and the two guys quickly formed a close bond.
After the breakup, her best friend’s fiancé stayed tight with her ex. Then, she found out that not only is her ex attending her best friend’s wedding next weekend, he’s officiating it.
“And if that’s not enough to grapple with, my friend refused me a plus-one and made no guarantees that my ex wouldn’t have one, even though he was single when we had the conversation a few months ago,” she explained.
She does have a boyfriend, and she’s been with him for a little under a year. Her best friend doesn’t want her boyfriend to come since she does not know him.
AnnaDemy – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
She’s tried her get them all to hang out, but her best friend has remained disinterested in getting to know her boyfriend.
What hurts the most about everything is that her best friend didn’t tell her that her ex is going to be the officiant; she found this information out from one of the girls who went to her best friend’s bachelorette party.
This girl was supposed to keep that detail a secret from her, and her best friend clearly was never going to mention it to her.
She also saw on social media that her ex’s new girlfriend, whom he’s been with for a month, has been tagging her best friend in some posts, so she suspects she will be at the wedding.
She’s been with her best friend for 16 years, and they have overcome so much together. It really upsets her that she is going to skip her best friend’s wedding over her ex’s involvement.
She did let her best friend know, but her best friend quickly said she’s trying to make everything all about her.
She’s left wondering if her best friend is right and if she is attempting to be the center of attention.
What do you think?
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