Chip Chick
“A part of me is disappointed that he let his divorce process go on for this long. We live in a European country where it’s normal not to get married, even though I know he’ll be very disappointed when I have to tell him that I don’t wish to get married right now. Being pregnant and getting married at the same time feels very wrong for me.”
She feels like her boyfriend already stole her wedding dreams away from her, and she’s not sure if that’s too dramatic of her to say.
She’s left with some complex feelings to work through after having to wait four long years for her boyfriend to be a free man.
She’s not even sure it’s worth explaining to her boyfriend exactly why she wants to hold off on getting married sometime soon.
“For those questioning why I got pregnant with a married man, I was 2 years ago diagnosed with stage 4 endometriosis, and I was advised to start having children ASAP, or else I might not be able to have children in the future,” she added.
Do you think she should sit down with her boyfriend and be honest about his disastrous divorce being the real reason why she’s turned off about tying the knot?
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