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“This caused such a commotion that my labor stalled, and I ended up needing an emergency C-section due to the stress and delay they caused,” she said.
“After Lily was born, Karen and Bob were unapologetic [and] they actually had the nerve to post about the birth on social media, including pictures they took during the chaos, without our consent,” she continued.
“They announced her name and details before we had a chance to.”
This incident made her incredibly frustrated, and she and her husband were heartbroken by the way his parents disrespected them and their first childbirth experience.
The fact that Karen and Bob didn’t apologize or understand what they did wrong made things worse.
So, when they took Lily home from the hospital, she decided that Karen and Bob were not allowed to visit with her until they showed remorse and apologized.
Right on time, Karen and Bob were quick to demand a visit with Lily, but she denied them and explained why. She was immediately accused of being cruel, and her husband is in a very uncomfortable position, as he’s siding with her but doesn’t want all of this tension between them and his family.
“They’ve since started a smear campaign against me to the rest of the family, painting me as the villain who’s keeping their grandchild away for no good reason,” she added.
“Now, I’m getting calls and messages from extended family [on my] husband’s side, accusing me of being heartless and unforgiving. They say I should put it behind me for the sake of family harmony, but I can’t.”
Is she wrong to deny her in-laws visits with her daughter or is it a good idea?
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