“I can’t compromise that part of myself. But I’m also trying not to spiral- my car broke down unexpectedly yesterday, it’s raining oil out of the bottom, and I have no savings,” she added.
“I’ve been living paycheck to paycheck. I’ve been spending money on our mortgage, 4 pets, activities with his daughter, and paying down credit. I have no idea what my next step should even be. And the worst part is that I love him so much still.”
“He is such a good person, and everything feels so normal, except that he doesn’t want to get married anymore, and he wants to have a kid, and I still don’t. I am struggling to see solutions. I know I need to leave, but logistically, I am having so much difficulty figuring this out, especially trying to sort through my feelings in the midst of it.”
What advice do you have for her?
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