According to her, her sister’s been asking for a lot of help, too, with everything from organizing the bachelorette party to even creating DIY decorations.
In the beginning, she agreed to help her sister out here and there. But since then, Lucy’s requests have only increased, and she just doesn’t want to invest that much time and effort into so many more responsibilities.
That’s why she wound up telling Lucy the truth about how, while she’s happy to occasionally pitch in, she can’t commit to so much – especially because she wasn’t even included as a bridesmaid.
Well, her sister didn’t understand her perspective and just became really upset. She even got accused of being unsupportive and petty.
“Our parents are also pressuring me to help her, saying that family should come first,” she vented.
So now, she’s unsure if refusing to help her sister out with wedding planning since she was excluded from the bridal party is actually petty or not.
Isn’t the stuff her sister’s asking for help with supposed to be a part of the bridesmaid “duties?” Why do you think she was excluded from the bridal party? Would you want to help your sister in this situation?
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