She then told Jake she’d need to be in the relationship for three years before getting married, and he acted shocked, so she elaborated.
“I would need to be getting to know someone for at least six months before seriously dating, and [we’d be] seriously dating for at least a year before moving in together,” she explained.
“[We’d also be] living together for at least a year and a half before getting engaged and married.”
Suddenly, Jake’s personality changed after she explained her ‘three-year rule.’
He went on a rampage, telling her she was stuck up, didn’t know what she wanted, and told her she wasted his time. Terrified by his sudden change in attitude, she called the waitress over, paid for her food, and left the restaurant.
“He sent me a message afterward saying he was dating to marry and [that] clearly I wasn’t serious enough for him, so there wouldn’t be a second date,“ she added.
“I can’t stop wondering if I might’ve done something wrong here.”
Did she do anything wrong, or was Jake wrong for behaving that way?
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