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His wife asked once more, and he said he would think about it. From there, his wife jumped to ask if she could sleep with someone else by herself, and he was greatly upset by this.
He thinks that’s cheating, even if his wife was talking about being with a woman and not a man. His wife got hurt by his opinion, but he figured she was trying to push some boundaries.
A month after his wife made that request, she sat him down one day and began sobbing. She confessed she might only be into women and needed to see for herself by sleeping with women.
That broke his heart, but he asked for time to think it over. That conversation sent him into a downward spiral.
He told his wife that he wanted to stay with her, and ever since, they have had quite a few candid discussions.
Two weeks after that major conversation, he caught his wife being secretive about her phone and after putting the pieces together, realized his wife had to be falling for her female best friend she was glued to the hip with.
“I confronted her, and she admitted she developed feelings for her, but she told her friend they needed space to work on her marriage with me,” he added.
“I do believe her there, but now I am completely lost on what to do regarding the open marriage. She still texts her friend, but it’s not like it has been before. Her friend knows she had some feelings for her, and she didn’t feel the same.”
“My wife would have chosen our marriage according to her, but I know she was a little sad it wasn’t reciprocated. Her friend wanted to watch our kid’s little league game, and I told my wife that was way too soon and I would be very uncomfortable. I told her to decide what is best, and she told her friend not to come.”
At the end of the month, he and his wife are going to attend counseling together. His wife has been sweet and honest with him, and she thinks their marriage has improved lately.
He’s not sure he agrees. He doesn’t see how he can survive an open marriage, so he’s wondering if this is the end for him and his wife.
