Katharina Buczek
Her Mom Sadly Passed Away When She Was Little
This sixteen-year-old girl’s mom sadly passed away when she was eight-years-old. But, after losing her mother, she was blessed to retain much of her mother’s looks.
She Looks Like She Could Be Her Mom’s Twin
“I look just like her– the same hair, same eyes, and with the right makeup, I resemble her exact face,” she explained.
After Her Mom Passed, She Became Closer To Her Dad
Plus, after she and her father suffered the loss, their relationship, thankfully, only grew stronger. They became very close-knit, and she knows she can always depend on her father for anything.
Her Dad’s Getting Remarried, But Her Future Stepmom Isn’t Nice
But now, her father is about to get married to his girlfriend of three years, and her future stepmother is not the most considerate.
Her Dad Talked To Her First Before Proposing
For example, when her father was thinking of marrying his girlfriend, he first asked her about it before moving forward.
Her Future Stepmom Really Didn’t Like That
“But, she did not like that he introduced the idea to me rather than just ask her and then let me find out,” she recalled.
This Woman Also Wants To Exclude Her From The Wedding Party
Another thing her future stepmother did not like was that she did not want to take part in the wedding party.
She’s Afraid She’s Never Going To Have A Good Relationship With Her Future Stepmom
Don’t get me wrong– she is really happy for her dad. Still, though, she feels like she and her stepmother will never achieve a bond nearly as close as it was with her biological mom.
She Tried To Please Her Future Stepmom
So, she simply agreed to deliver a small speech about them at the wedding– and everything settled down after that.
Now There’s A New Conflict
However, a new conflict has arisen since she went shopping with her grandmother and stepmother last week.
She Tried On A Dress To Wear For The Wedding
While they were browsing, she saw a dress she really wanted to get for the wedding and went into the store to try it on.
Her Grandma Mentioned She Looked Just Like Her Mom In The Dress
“It was an olive dress that matched my hair nicely– I’m ginger. They complimented me, and my grandma said that I looked like my mother because she wore that color so much,” she said.
She Forgot About The Comment
The comment was a fleeting one, though, and she thought nothing of it since the rest of the shopping trip went smoothly.
Then Her Future Stepmom Made A Crazy Request
But then, two days later, her stepmother approached her with a bizarre request.
Her Future Stepmom Wants Her To Change Her Hair Color
Apparently, her stepmother wanted her to dye her hair or literally wear a wig for the wedding. And understandably, she was utterly shocked and said no.
Her Future Stepmom’s Worried She Looks Just Like Her Mom
Then, it came out that her stepmother did not want people saying she looked like her own biological mother during the wedding– which prompted her to rightfully kick her stepmother out of the room.
She Told Her Dad About The Insane Request
And as soon as her father got home from work, she spilled the beans about what had happened and told him how uncomfortable the request made her feel.
Her Dad Promised To Talk To Her Future Stepmom
Her father then said that he was going to talk to his fiancée that evening and sent her to her uncle’s house in the meantime.
That Conversation Went So Poorly The Wedding Is Now On Hold
During their conversation, though, things went seriously awry. In fact, her father and stepmother got into such a heated argument that now the wedding has been put on pause.
And Her Future Stepmom’s Family Is Blaming Her
Moreover, her stepmother’s family now believes that she is the reason the wedding is temporarily off because she would not abide by “the bride’s request.”
She’s Wondering If She Was Wrong To Tell Her Dad About The Request
So now, even though she knows there was no way she would have ever dyed her hair or worn a wig, she is not sure if telling her father about the bizarre request was the wrong thing to do.
Would you be uncomfortable if your future stepmom asked you to change your resemblance? How would you have handled this situation?
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