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“Although objectively we weren’t exclusive when I found out, I was taking it back and hurt, after being under the impression that she didn’t do things like that after expressing how much of an amazing time she had on our first date,” he admitted.
He’s since forgiven his girlfriend for what she did, but ever since learning that piece of information, he now feels upset when he thinks about their first date.
Recently, his girlfriend sent him a picture of her wearing the outfit she wore the night of their first date, as it popped up as a year-old memory in her phone.
He could tell his girlfriend was trying to remember that night in a positive light, but he couldn’t respond to the message.
She later confronted him and asked why he wasn’t saying anything and if he didn’t like the picture.
He told her that the picture made him sad as he felt the “magic” of their first date was gone ever since he found out she hooked up with someone else shortly afterward.
His girlfriend was extremely upset with his response and claimed that his words proved he still hasn’t forgiven her and will never get over that incident.
“I tried explaining that I do forgive her, but I just don’t want to overly romanticize our first date anymore,” he added.
Do you think he was too harsh with his girlfriend, or was he right to be upset?
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