Chip Chick
Her husband and this woman spoke about their mutual feelings the night they went out together, and since then, they have been talking about it over text.
She questioned her husband about how he started falling for this woman, and he just stated it was pretty natural.
She then asked to see the messages between her husband and this woman, but he refused to let her see, which really irritated her.
Her husband reassured her that nothing happened between him and this other woman aside from them both talking about their feelings.
“Here’s where I stand; I am not naive and I know people develop feelings for people all the time,” she said.
“It would be unnatural not to, and I don’t think he’s wrong for having them. However, I don’t like that they discussed it before discussing it with me and the woman’s husband.”
She’s additionally upset about her husband and this other woman keeping their conversation about feelings a secret for days on end without her being filled in.
Since her husband and this other woman have a shared crush, she thinks it might be worth leaving her husband.
It’s not that easy for her to decide what to do about her marriage, especially since her husband promised he doesn’t want to have a life that doesn’t include her in it.
This is hardly the first time she and her husband have found themselves in a situation of this nature, and she believes it’s unfair to her to stay married to a man who doesn’t only have eyes for her.
“We do not have an open relationship, and we pride ourselves on our honesty with each other, and this felt a little late,” she added.
