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She mentioned to her husband that she wanted to try another round, but then he told her out of left field that he no longer wishes to have children.
“He said that the world is so messed up that he can’t in good conscience bring another human being into it…so I asked him to bring one in bad conscience and he said no,” she added.
“Then I talked to him about adoption. We don’t need to have our own kids, but there are many kids already alive without loving homes, so why not adopt? He said no.”
She turned to questioning her husband about what they should do with their embryos since they can’t use them, and he stated they can destroy them or donate them for research.
That truly broke her heart into pieces. She pressed her husband to tell her why he changed his mind about having kids, and that’s when he revealed the truth.
Her husband admitted everything is perfect as it is with just the two of them, and he enjoys their life without having kids.
“All our friends have kids, and he sees how they basically have to build their lives and schedules around their kids,” she said.
“They can’t be spontaneous, they don’t have time for each other…etc. last year, we traveled to 13 countries, and half of them were spontaneous. In January alone, we traveled to 4 countries this year, and we still have so many trips planned.”
“My husband is a software engineer, and I’m a cardiologist. We make so much money that we have bought everything we want and invested. If we keep up our work, we can retire by the time he’s 40.”
While she does get where her husband is coming from, and she sees how crazy the lives of their loved ones with kids can be, she’s not changing her mind.
She’s always dreamed of getting to be a mom and experiencing having a baby with her husband. She wants to have her own child to hold in her arms.
