Chip Chick
“This is manageable, and she enjoys sports. If it weren’t for her, this would be an utter purgatory, and I feel bad for her. Her older sister is very abusive to her and hits her and screams obscenely at her. Now, she is immature for her age and can draw on herself and on the walls, etc…but she has a chance. I have her on a 504 plan at school.”
The last child she had with her ex is her 9-year-old, who has ADHD, Autism, and a speech impairment. While he’s high functioning, today at the doctor’s office, he started biting himself over a tiny change in his routine.
He’s exceptionally hard to deal with, especially since he’s constantly trying to run away from home while saying everyone hates him.
He does tend to get violent and break items. She characterizes him as unstable, difficult, and highly destructive.
Next year, he’s finally going to get into a special education program at school, which she thinks will help him, but he’s very overwhelming for her to deal with.
Six years ago, before she could tell her children had a lot of issues, she got married and decided to have kids with her new husband.
She has three kids with her husband, and they are five, three, and a newborn. She doesn’t want her little kids to have to grow up in the mess of her mentally ill older kids.
Her 9-year-old tries to harm her 5-year-old, and her two teens intimidate the little kids. Her oldest also calls her newborn awful names.
Her ex does absolutely nothing to help her with his problematic kids, so she wants to pack three of them up and send them to live with him.
She and her husband have to do everything for her oldest kids, and they constantly run around between therapists and doctors with all of them.
“I want to send the father his 3 children. I’ll keep my 11-year-old,” she said. “I want to send him the other ones, especially his 9-year-old son with Autism.”
