Bre Avery Zacharski
Speaking of her husband, his friends are incredible, and she’s so envious of that. She’s also going through a bit of a postpartum rollercoaster emotionally, which is causing her to act out and resent her husband for having stellar buddies.
She’s been getting into arguments with her husband when he spends time with his friends, but she’s usually not like that.
Over the past couple of months, she has been trying her hardest to make plans with her own friends, but they’re too busy for her.
While she understands life gets hectic (I mean, she has a newborn to deal with), she suspects her friends simply don’t care about keeping her in their lives.
“I spent the whole of my 20s partying, traveling, and eating takeout on couches with these girls,” she said.
“And now I feel like they could care less about me or my life events. It’s honestly quite sad, and I feel like making new friends at 30 is incredibly intimidating and almost unachievable…As my 30th birthday approaches, my husband suggested I spend a girl’s weekend with them as I’ve spent my 20s with them, and it would be a nice way to end my 20s.”
“I’m at the point where I’m not even going to ask them for a girl’s weekend because I know I will get declined. And it’s just making me really sad.”
It’s hard for her to move into a new decade completely friendless, without a single soul by her side. She can’t even be excited to celebrate her birthday.
What advice do you have for her?
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