Chip Chick
While they were separated, he began seeing another woman, and when his wife found out, she flipped.
His wife clearly thought that they could reconcile, while he wasn’t convinced. But then, last summer, he and his wife began spending more time together while doing things with their kids, and they did start to reconnect.
They thought that perhaps their marriage could work, so they resumed a relationship, sold their home, and bought a new place to live in for a fresh start.
When they moved into their new home, everything was wonderful, but they didn’t speak about what had gone down during their separation, let alone their feelings.
“I knew this would have to come up eventually, but I wanted to give it time for us to set everything in place first,” he said.
“And our relationship felt better than ever before until 3 weeks back. This is where I started to get a bad feeling. I saw micro behavior from my partner that didn’t make sense. She took away her phone as soon as I went into the room, etc. Small stuff. And 2 weeks ago, I took the courage to investigate this.”
“So one night, I went through her messages and saw that she had texted her boss at her new work. And what I could read from it was a lot of regular talk but also with a very flirty intent; they longed for each other and talked about how they needed to wait at work until everyone had left before they could give each other a hug. So with this, I confirmed with myself that it was indeed something going on.”
The following evening, his wife told him she had to stay late at work, and when she arrived home, he confronted her and simply said he felt she was being secretive about something.
She denied it all the way, so then he informed her that he read her text messages to her boss. Then, his wife admitted the truth; she hadn’t been working overtime; she had stayed late to spend time with her boss.
She said all they did was kiss and hug and it only happened two more times beforehand. The next morning, he and his wife took off from work to stay home and have a long chat. In fact, they stayed home from work for an entire week to work through everything.
He believes that what he did while they were separated was the cause of his wife cheating on him with her boss.
