Katharina Buczek
Yet, his wife still wants to have another child with him. In fact, she’s said that she would do it all over again in a heartbeat to have another baby.
He, on the other hand, told his wife that he’s seriously considering “being done” after having just one baby with her. And she hasn’t been taking his perspective well.
They’ve discussed their options together a few times, and whenever he expresses his feelings about not wanting another baby, he feels like his wife just tries to minimize his fears and what he wants.
But, while he realizes he initially agreed to have two children with her, things have simply changed. So much happened with the birth of their son, and he’s learned so much that he’s now leaning toward not wanting another.
He also thinks it would be irresponsible of them to have another baby right now because he doesn’t think he can handle caring or financially supporting two children.
“I know this could very well end our marriage,” he vented, “But I can’t sacrifice so much potentially for this.”
Still, he can’t help but wonder if not wanting another baby with his wife is justified or makes him a jerk.
Can you understand why he’s nervous? How can he and his wife work through their opposing views together?
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