Bre Avery Zacharski
He would ask her why she was in love with him, and she would reply that she didn’t really know why.
“All this time, I’ve always tried to be positive; I’ve always tried as if I had no other option but her,” he said.
“From time to time, we had discussions about these issues or similar issues. For example, she didn’t keep the house tidy because she didn’t like our house.”
“Or we had little arguments with her mom all the time, and she would not speak up when she was clearly wrong. Because I was always humble, it was like I was just there to fill the role of “husband” in our relationship.”
But last December, several things happened in succession that caused him to finally give up on his wife and their marriage.
The first incident was a family birthday celebration when his father mentioned to his wife that if they ever hypothetically got divorced, they still wanted to spend time together.
The second thing that upset him was when his wife’s mom stated that husbands should do whatever their wives want.
The third issue was when he broke down and told his wife she was doing something to break his heart, and she accused him of exaggerating.
The fourth event was his having to commute two hours to work every day on the bus, even though he and his wife had enough money to purchase a car. But his wife never offered, even after he complained that she didn’t care.
Those four moments pushed him completely over the edge. He was exhausted from being a loving and patient husband.
He clarifies that he doesn’t think his wife is a mean person; she simply has a very different personality than he does.
