Chip Chick
“My cousin arranged the trip entirely on purpose to ruin my father’s wedding since my mother was her godmother,” she explained.
“My father was mad at her, but my cousin told him that she was not going to cancel her trip for a second wedding, or, in her literal words by text, ‘I’m much more interested in seeing the grass grow than in your wedding.'”
Today, her dad learned that she was attending her cousin’s trip instead of his wedding, and he was furious.
During the conversation with her, he started sobbing, claiming that “everyone is punishing him for finding love.”
In response, she questioned whether her mom had been his soulmate. Her dad continued sobbing as he told her she wasn’t old enough to comprehend what he was going through.
She dismissed this comment because he uses this phrase often when he wants to shut down a conversation.
Over the years, her father has claimed she’s not old enough to discuss serious issues like politics that she was interested in talking about with him.
According to her dad, his fiancée was his genuine soulmate, and in her view, it sounded like he was insinuating that her mother hadn’t been.
On the other hand, her mother told her that her dad was her soulmate up until the day she passed away, and it was devastating and heartbreaking to think of how her mom would feel to know that her father may not have loved her as deeply as she’d loved him.
“Can you really find the love of your life in two weeks? I understand that grief is different for everyone, but who grieves spending Christmas with your new girlfriend and not with your daughter, who lost her mother? He neglected me. Even if I was a teen, everything was always about how he feels and wants,” she shared.
Despite her father’s hysterical crying, she doubled down on her decision not to go to his wedding. Later, her father’s mother called her to pray.
