Bre Avery Zacharski
His wife has talked to her parents, who are willing to watch their kids when they can, and his wife has also promised to find a night shift job to help make money.
“But I don’t feel like this is going to be enough. She will be earning a lot less, and I will have to work more hours to make sure we are definitely financially alright,” he said.
“This will mean I spend less time at home [and] can’t contribute as much to household chores, which she will have to pick up and balance even more work. I said I can’t support this choice and that she should wait a few years until the kids are in school and she has more time.”
“She says I am [a jerk], that she has a right to be happy in her life, and I should be supporting her. She says it’s unfair that I get to enjoy my work (which I do), and she spends her days hating it.”
He knows it isn’t fair, but this is not a good time for his wife to pursue her dreams, and he can’t stand by and support her.
What advice do you have for him?
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