“Her mom pulled her into the other room for 15 minutes, and I stayed with her family,” he said. “I sat there seeing her sister interact with her boyfriend, laughing, joking, and having a good time and I sat and wondered what it would be like to be him.”
“If the roles were switched and I was dating the fun sister and not the mentally ill one. And that was such a [terrible] thought to have, but I can’t help but think it.”
“My girlfriend ended up asking for me, and I had to go sit there for half an hour trying to stop her from crying while her family was laughing and having a good time in the other room. When she calls me, sometimes I feel a pit in my stomach because I don’t know what she’ll be going through this time.”
When his girlfriend asks him to spend time with her, he wants to decline, as he knows something inevitably will go wrong with her.
He might use a tone she gets upset by, or he finds himself getting irritated when she constantly wants to know if she’s upsetting him as he’s just trying to drive his car somewhere.
He’s also fed up with his girlfriend begging to meet his parents, even though he doesn’t really speak to them.
He can explain all he wants to his girlfriend why he doesn’t want to have a relationship with his mom and dad, but that only causes her to throw a total tantrum.
His parents are not nice people, and he can’t understand why his girlfriend says she must meet them.
They get into fights about meeting his parents constantly, and his girlfriend doesn’t listen to him when he says he wants to keep them out of his life.
They argue about other things aside from his parents, and if he suggests no longer being together, his girlfriend acts in a very alarming way.
“And if I ever insinuate that if we can’t fix the problem, our relationship won’t work, she will scream, cry, have a panic attack, and pass out,” he continued.
