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“He says that since he is paying for the vacation, he sees no problem with getting to enjoy time off when he wants to,” she explained.
After her husband told her this, she responded, expressing that it’s not fair to leave her children out of these trips all the time.
Then, he said that if she wants to make sure her teenagers are included in their vacations, she should ask her ex-husband, her children’s father, to foot the bill for them to be able to come with.
Occasionally, her teenagers have the chance to come on vacation with them, but her husband still manages to find a way to exclude them.
“My two teens are hurt by it because they want to go, and they feel left out. When we fly, he sits us three (himself, me, and our 3-year-old) in first class and sits my other two anywhere he can get a cheap seat,” she shared.
She is positive that if their daughter was older than about 10 years old, her husband would have no qualms with paying for her to fly first class with them.
While she understands that a lot of teenagers can be unruly, her children are polite and kind.
In her view, her husband stopped tolerating her children once she had their daughter, and her husband doesn’t even seem to like her children at all.
During the conversation with her husband, she made it clear that she didn’t want to go on a trip without her children.
The idea of a trip with just her and her husband is appealing, but she thinks it’s cruel to purposely leave her children out of their plans altogether.
Plus, she believes it’s unfair to be forced to ask her children’s father to be the one to pay for them to come on any future trips.
