Bre Avery Zacharski
“When I got there, I realized that all of his friend’s GFs and wives were there, and so I said, “I didn’t realize they’d all be here.”
“8 pm rolls around, and he turns to me and says, “It’s about that time.” I got upset because none of the other GFs, wives, or women were leaving, but he was still “sending me home.” I asked him to explain the logic, and he refused and just said, “You said that you would leave at that time, and now you don’t want to honor that.”
“And I said, “When I said that, I thought that it was just the boys. This seems weird for me to be ‘sent home’ while everyone else’s partners are still here.” He just kept saying, “Well, let it be weird then.”
In the past, she has told her boyfriend she wants to be with a guy who wants to include her in his life instead of excluding her. So, she has tried to say to him it’s meaningful for her to feel like she’s not an afterthought and more like a priority.
She does realize it’s important to have your own set of friends and spend time alone with them, but she can’t get over how strange it is that her boyfriend never invites her to come with him and his friends anywhere.
Also, she thought that the birthday party was bizarre because all of her boyfriend’s friends had their wives and girlfriends in attendance, yet he didn’t want her to be there too for that long.
“It feels like a dealbreaker, but I feel stupid to break up over something like this and also feel stupid staying and dealing with this,” she concluded.
Do you think this is a big red flag?
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