Her Boyfriend Invited Her To A Friend’s Birthday Party, But Then He Asked Her To Leave By 8 So He Could Be At The Party Alone, Even Though All His Other Friends Brought Their Wives And Girlfriends
This 30-year-old girl has a boyfriend a year younger than her, and they have been dating for close to 2 years.
They have discussed getting married to one another and spending the remainder of their lives by each other’s sides.
One thing that does strike her as strange about her boyfriend, though, is that he never asks her to hang out with him and his friends.
Her boyfriend will always make up a bunch of excuses for why he doesn’t want her to come to spend time with him and his friends, like he will say that he only wants it to be him and the guys.
Or, he will just tell her that he does not want her to hang around when everything is “crazy.”
Finally, her boyfriend did ask her to attend a birthday party for one of his friends recently, but he only invited her after he had been at the party for several hours.
He texted her that she was allowed to come to the party too that night if she felt like it. She replied back, questioning him about if he really did want her to be there since he is forever saying he only wants hanging out time to be for him and the boys.
Her boyfriend texted back that she could stop by for a bit but that he wanted her to be out of there by 8 p.m. since things were going to “get rachet” that night.
“I thought about it and was like, I’d only be there for 2 hours is it worth it?” she wondered. “But I decided to go because I’ve been trying to get him to invite me out, and he finally did, so I should go.”
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“When I got there, I realized that all of his friend’s GFs and wives were there, and so I said, “I didn’t realize they’d all be here.”
“8 pm rolls around, and he turns to me and says, “It’s about that time.” I got upset because none of the other GFs, wives, or women were leaving, but he was still “sending me home.” I asked him to explain the logic, and he refused and just said, “You said that you would leave at that time, and now you don’t want to honor that.”
“And I said, “When I said that, I thought that it was just the boys. This seems weird for me to be ‘sent home’ while everyone else’s partners are still here.” He just kept saying, “Well, let it be weird then.”
In the past, she has told her boyfriend she wants to be with a guy who wants to include her in his life instead of excluding her. So, she has tried to say to him it’s meaningful for her to feel like she’s not an afterthought and more like a priority.
She does realize it’s important to have your own set of friends and spend time alone with them, but she can’t get over how strange it is that her boyfriend never invites her to come with him and his friends anywhere.
Also, she thought that the birthday party was bizarre because all of her boyfriend’s friends had their wives and girlfriends in attendance, yet he didn’t want her to be there too for that long.
“It feels like a dealbreaker, but I feel stupid to break up over something like this and also feel stupid staying and dealing with this,” she concluded.
Do you think this is a big red flag?
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