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Then, a week before the wedding, Naomi texted Sarah to ask about the plan for her to get ready with Sarah’s friends and bridesmaids and have her hair and makeup done. Sarah’s response was pretty shocking.
“Sarah responds, acting confused, and basically tells her nicely to just come with me,” he said.
After that, he was understandably even more infuriated with this ongoing situation of Sarah leaving Naomi out of events she’d previously invited her to.
Prior to the situation getting worse, he had bought Sarah her dream wedding gift: a very expensive baking mixer. Evidently, his mom had ruined the surprise, so Sarah already knew ahead of time that he’d bought it for her.
But he no longer wanted to give her this extravagant gift, and with all the anger he had towards Sarah, he felt like being “petty.” So, he returned the baking mixer and decided to just give Sarah a check instead.
A few days after the wedding, Sarah texted him to ask, “‘I don’t know how to ask this, but what happened to the mixer?'”
In response, he said, “‘I don’t know how to ask this, but what happened to treating my girlfriend like a human being?'”
After that, his brother, brother-in-law (Sarah’s husband), and his mom texted him and said that he was ruining Sarah’s happy time after her wedding.
Naomi admitted that she does feel “vindicated,” but she also doesn’t think he should have texted that response to Sarah.
Later, he talked with Sarah on the phone, but it didn’t help to clear things up.
According to Sarah, she’d asked Naomi to be an “honorary” bridesmaid. Sarah also claimed that Naomi told her that she worked most weekends, so she’d assumed Naomi wouldn’t be able to make the bachelorette party and that she was okay just helping to plan it instead.
