After thinking things over for a while with her fiancé, she decided her dad would be allowed to invite four friends. She sent out the invites to everyone on the original guest list and set her the ones for her dad’s friends aside so she could talk to him about the situation in person.
“Life gets away from us, and I am worried about bringing up the topic with my dad after he reacted so terribly the last time I spoke with him,” she explained.
“My fiancé offers to email my dad to let him know our decision.”
After seeing her email, her dad called her and freaked out. He told her that because she “delayed” sending out her wedding invites to his friends, two of his friends said they couldn’t go anymore.
Because of this, he decided he would only go to her ceremony and not her reception. She became very upset and asked if he could live with himself after skipping his daughter’s wedding reception, and he said yes before hanging up.
“I messaged him with how hurt I was by his decision and that all he had to do was ask about their invites rather than jump to this conclusion that I didn’t invite them on purpose,” she recalled.
“He says that he is only reacting to my decision to delay their invites.”
As time has passed, her dad has continued to express how he’s been sad about not being considered enough throughout the wedding planning process. Now, she can’t tell if what she did to him was wrong. Should she have been more diligent about inviting her dad’s extra friends to her wedding, or is her dad too high maintenance?
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